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Saying Goodbye

Have you ever had to move to a different city? That's not the big question. Big question is, have you ever had to move to a different city alone? Leaving your family and loved ones behind? If you have, then you'd relate to this more.


You'd understand when I speak of that sickly feeling you get in your stomach or when I speak of the tears that seem to bite your eye. You'd understand when I speak of the lump you feel in your throat because of the tear you won't let come out. You'd understand  when I speak of crying in a bus. You'd understand when I speak of wanting love so much. You'd understand when I say I don't like saying goodbye. Cos saying goodbye is hard. Its good that you understand  the terrific feeling that comes just from saying goodbye.

Since you understood that, Its easy then to say that you understand that saying goodbye is an exhibition of courage. That saying goodbye is a symbol of greatness. That saying goodbye means you've taken another bold step.  That saying goodbye is a means of making the 'welcome' you receive grand.

Yeah, I know, saying goodbye is hard, but it isn't so terrible now, is it?

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  1. MEGABYTE7 April 2020 at 08:09

    uhm, saying goodbye can't be avoided...

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  2. Opeloyeru7 April 2020 at 08:44

    Maybe because I have been exposed to it from a very young age, but saying goodbye is one of my favourite word. #we are always following you

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  3. Unknown7 April 2020 at 11:16

    Goodbye is something u can't do without uttering or been uttered to during ones lifetime. Keep following

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  4. Unknown7 April 2020 at 12:33

    No matter how hard it might be,we should be able to say goodbye when necessary as there lies our true strength.

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  5. Unknown8 April 2020 at 17:26

    It isn't.
    In some cases goodbye is the only way out of the situation. Though we find it hard to say goodbye, we just have to gather the courage to do that to be at peace not pieces because if we keep patching things up you just keep feeling more depressed daily. So it's better to be bold enough to say goodbye
    🧕🌹
    #letsrevivethevibes

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